A Theatrical Undertaker:
AUTHOR: KAREN ELLIS-REES
PUBLISHED: 26 MAY 2019
Theophilus Dunkley was described by those who knew him as convivial, clubbable, charitable and very fond of the music hall, not qualities one immediately associates with the Victorian undertaker — perhaps unfairly. Having lived on and around Westminster Bridge Road all his life, Theo now rests in Lambeth Cemetery in Tooting among the many variety performers who were both his friends and clients.
Founded in 1814, the Dunkley undertaking dynasty began with Theo’s grandfather, Thomas, a chair-maker with a sideline in coffin making. The family lived in the aptly named Joiners Place on the south side of Westminster Bridge Road, where William Dunkley was born in August 1808. The family then moved a few streets to the north to 66 Tower Street.
Undertakers were not greatly liked, as can be seen in this extract from a poem by ‘R.F.’, which was printed in the New Monthly Magazine in 1830:
A GRAVE REHEARSAL
Surely Dame Nature tried to cry,
The morning when she made the die
For mouldering undertakers;
With sallow-visag’d, scarecrow forms
Brought into life in clouds and storms,
With hands to knead their fellow-worms
And take them to the bakers …
There is more — quite a lot more, in fact — in the same vein.
William and Rosey
Even so in December 1842 Rosey Cox née Cline, the widowed mother of nine young children, liked William well enough to marry him. Within four years the family had expanded with the births of Theophilus in 1844 and Virginia in 1846. In the 1851 Post Office Directory William is listed as a furnishing undertaker. In the hierarchy of funeral operatives this was the top level, as is made clear in the 1869 edition of Cassell’s Household Guide:
Besides the persons who make the coffin, there are the coffin-furniture manufacturers, the funeral robe, sheet, and ruffle makers, the funeral-carriage masters, and funeral feather-men. All these supply at first-hand the furnishing undertaker, who, in his turn, supplies the trade and the public.
William died in July 1864, leaving Rosey as his executrix and effects of under a hundred pounds. Theo, now the head of the family at barely twenty, took over the business, and two months after his mother Rosey’s death in January 1873 he married Elizabeth Mary Ann Smith, the daughter of a Fleet Street fishmonger. They soon had three children — William Robert, Florence Elizabeth and Archibald — the last of whom sadly died while still a baby.
Living in Theatreland
Theo was doing well. He employed four to five men in the undertaking business and a general servant and nursemaid to work in the house, and in 1876 he joined the Masonic Jordan Lodge, rising the rank of Worshipful Master in 1887, the year of the Queen’s jubilee.
But at the centre of Theo’s social life were the music halls and theatres, which is not surprising, as he lived surrounded by places of popular entertainment. Astley’s Amphitheatre was just up the road next to Westminster Bridge, and Gatti’s Theatre and the various versions of the Canterbury Music Hall were on Westminster Bridge Road. A brisk ten minute walk could take you to the Surrey and the Elephant and Castle Theatres, and around the corner on Waterloo Road and York Road were the offices of the theatrical agents.
Theo’s obituary in the stage newspaper The Era claimed that he was ‘present on the occasion of the opening of the Canterbury and Paragon’. These openings were no doubt those that marked the rebuilding of the Canterbury in 1876 and the inauguration of the Paragon Theatre on Mile End Road by his great friends Charles Crowder and George Adney Payne in 1885.
Undertaker to the stars
Although stars could earn good money, most performers found it hard to make ends meet when they were unemployed or ill or old. There was great esprit de corps amongst theatrical folk — as much then as there is now — and several benevolent societies were set up to help those in need. One such, of which Theo was a member, was the Grand Order of Water Rats, a society that still exists today. Many of the burials he organised were probably paid for by the Order, which had its own plot in the Lambeth Cemetery, and by the Music Hall Artists and Railway Rates Benevolent Society.
Theo also arranged the funerals of some of the music hall greats: Bessie Bellwood at St Patrick’s Catholic Cemetery in Leytonstone, Jenny ‘The Vital Spark’ Hill at Nunhead Cemetery and the amazing Dan Leno down in Lambeth Cemetery. But in 1883 he had to oversee a funeral closer to home, for Elizabeth had died. She was thirty-six years old.
He began making more changes. The business and family moved to 88 Westminster Bridge Road, next door to the now defunct St Thomas’ Church, and not far from the terminus of the Necropolis Railway, which whizzed bodies down to Brookwood Cemetery. Then on 1 April 1885 he married a young divorcee, Elizabeth Keddle née Cameron. Bessie, as she was known, had been married to the vocalist and comedian Harry Starr in 1878, and divorced five years later. Perhaps she too was on the stage?
One of the best
Theo died on Tuesday 23 March 1909: he had been ill with bronchitis for two weeks. He was buried the following Tuesday with all the pomp and ceremony one would expect for someone in the trade, the occasion marked by the solemn funeral cortège that left 88 Westminster Bridge Road at midday, watched by a large crowd.
The hearse, pulled by six black horses, carried a fine oak coffin decorated with brass fittings and masonic symbols. Behind it was a landau full of floral tributes, and after it came eight coaches, each pulled by four horses. It took one and a half hours to travel the six and a half miles to Tooting.
As with all the ‘best’ funerals, no women were present. The interment was attended by male family members, employers, friends and representatives of the theatrical benevolent societies — The Grand Order of Water Rats, the Terriers Association and the Music Hall Artists and Railway Rates Benevolent Society. Amongst those attending were members of Theo’s lodge, who, it was noted, threw sprigs of acacia — the masonic symbol of immortality — into the grave.
The monument can still be seen today, topped by a rather charming and well-preserved angel. The dedication reads:
IN AFFECTIONATE REMEMBRANCE
OF OUR DEAR PARENTS
ELIZABETH MARY ANN
3 SEPTEMBER 1883
AGED 36 YEARS
WHO DIED 23 MARCH 1909
AGED 65 YEARS.
GOD BLESS YOU.
Theo left £9,795 in his will, and his son William Robert carried on the business until the 1920s. But what became of Elizabeth — Bessie — I have not yet been able to find out.
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